The road in
VUCA will be long, windy and
bumpy. But as Lao Tzu
老子 says "The journey of a
thousand miles begins at
your feet"
(千里之行始于足下). And if you
can do what Sun
Tzu 孙子 says
"If you can walk a thousand
miles and not feel tired,
you will be
undefeatable"
(行千里而不劳者,行于无人之地). Such
is the key to selling in
times of VUCA.
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Selling
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- What changes sales people and their managers would have to make, if they were to achieve greater business performance in VUCA?
- How to rely less on past experiences and "tried-and-proven" methods of selling, and more on honing your business acumen during selling
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Tips
for Managers:
Achieving a Balance
Between Assertiveness and Empathy
in Sales
by c.j. Ng
While a lot has been mentioned
about how one needs to have EQ to
be successful at work (regardless
of the type of work), but not much
has been said about which aspects
of EQ are the most useful at work.
As such, we use the sales job as
an example of how EQ needs to be
applied in the right way to be
successful.
Essentially, sales is a balance of
assertiveness, and empathy.
Assertive, because the sales
person needs to assert influence
over the customer and drive the
sale. Empathy because the sales
person needs to listen and
empathize with the needs of the
customer, and then seek to deliver
solutions to fulfill those needs.
Here are some further insights on
how having the right balance of
both qualities will bring sales
success, and how having an
imbalance might result in poorer
performances.
Assertiveness
By and large, sales people need to
be assertive enough to reach out
to different customers, both
existing and prospective ones.
They would have to take actions to
drive their ideas across, and
taking the risks of possible
rejections and stalemates along
the way.
In a complex sales situation,
sales people will need to know how
to be assertive to reach out to
different stakeholders and
influencers that could have an
impact on the final buying
decisions.
In a way, the assertiveness that a
sales person exhibits could
include the following components:
- Having the initiative to make things happen;
- Guide and influence customers’ thinking;
- Asking questions to find out hidden needs and agenda;
- Navigate through different stakeholders and influencers that could have an impact on the final buying decisions;
- Being persevered to follow through long sales cycles;
- Not be discouraged by rejections, or when customers say “no";
- Overcoming objections and win over customers;
- Working through and influencing internal colleagues to give the customers what they want;
- Doing whatever it takes to meet sales targets; etc.
When
facing rejections, sales people
can be assertive in the following
ways:
- Be persevered and follow up with the customer over the long term;
- Not be discouraged by the rejections, and move on to other, more suitable customers
Empathy
Empathy, on the other hand, works
in a different way. In this
aspect, sales people will have to
be attentive to customers’ needs,
and then seek ways to fulfil those
needs.
Empathy can imply:
- Listening to what customers say, as well as what they did NOT say;
- Building trust with customers;
- Be mindful of the customers’ feelings and avoid antagonizing the customer;
- Having a positive “can do” attitude and provide great service; etc.
- Having empathy doesn’t mean being nice to customers, or not saying “no” to customers. It simply means stepping into the shoes of customers, and see things from their points of views.
Striking a Balance
Now it would be obvious that if
sales people are overly assertive,
and under-empathize, they could be
come aggressive and offend
customers. On the other hand, if
they over-empathize but are not
assertive enough, they may lose
control of the sales process, and
be pushed around by customers.
Here’s a typical scenario of how
sales people need to apply a
balance of assertiveness and
empathy in sales.
Let’s say you have a prospective
customer whom you are trying to
make contact. They told you that
they are quite happy with the
current suppliers that they have
right now, and do not need to buy
from a new one.
A sales person who is less
assertive would just walk away.
A sales person who is assertive,
but not empathetic, would try to
convince the customer how the new
products or solutions will deliver
much better performances than the
existing ones. However, the
customer would see this as
aggressive sales behaviour, and
then become defensive. The
customer might then avoid seeing
the sales person in the future.
A sales person who is assertive
and empathetic could explore with
the customer on a few aspects,
such as:
- If the customer were to work with an additional supplier (instead of changing suppliers), what would be some of their selection criteria?
- If the customer were to explore how to make their existing equipment or materials perform better, what will be those areas they would like to see an improvement?
- Who in the customer’s organisation are currently satisfied, and who else are currently dissatisfied, with the solution they have?
Do note
that in the initial phases of
selling, the empathetic sales
person will avoid issues such as:
- What products to recommend;
- What price point to hit;
- When would the customer buy;
- What quantities would they buy
This is
because the customer really does
not have a strong need at the
moment, and being assertive to
close the sale would push the
customer away, rather than pull
them closer. The right kind of
assertiveness would be to probe
further and find out if the
customer has other unfulfilled
needs, and explore different
options.
Now, assuming that the customer is
willing to explore, and is now
actively engaging with your
technical colleagues to test your
samples and get their advice.
However, this “technical
interaction” has been going on for
a long time, and there has been no
further inclination of the
customer’s wish to buy from you.
In fact, in a couple of new
product purchases, the customer
had asked for your quotation but
did not but from you. You felt
that the customer could be taking
advantage of your company’s
resources, and there’s no firm
commitment for a purchase from
you.
The sales person who is overly
empathetic and under assertive,
would simply maintain the way it
is, in case the customer gets
offended and refuse future
communication.
The sales person who is assertive
and empathetic would:
- Politely ask the customer if there could be a commitment to buy something in the foreseeable future;
- If the customer could not give an affirmative answer, let the customer understand that the resources provided can only be given to customers with confirmed purchases. The resources that had been provided to the customer will have to be reduced;
- If the customer still decides not to buy, have the assertiveness that there will be other customers who will buy, and be assertive enough to walk away
Hence, sales people can improve their sales performance if they could have better EQ. In this case, it would be the constant practice of balancing their assertiveness and empathy.
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